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Solitary confinement –WikipediaThe UN Special Rapporteur on Torture and other UN bodies have stated that the solitary confinement (physical and social isolation of 22–24 hours per day for 1 day or more) of young people under age 18, for any duration, constitutes cruel, inhumane, or degrading treatment.
I was 17 years old when I endured a 9 month stay in a Secure Children’s Home near Southampton, I was imprisoned by the Family Court in Alton under a Welfare Order initially for 3 months, extended every 3 months for a further 3 months. A Welfare Order is imposed on Children in the Care system who have not been criminally convicted of a crime but are perceived to be unmanageable in the community due to reasons such as absconding or disruptive behaviour in their placements, engaging in self-harm, suicidal, or risk taking behaviours. Refusal to attend school or at risk of engaging in criminal activities. In some cases as a young person can be held in these units up to 72 hours without a Court Order Young people can be held for a few days purely because no other placement can be found quickly enough.
Secure Children’s homes are primarily to accommodate children aged between 10-17 sentenced through the Criminal Courts. They have higher staff to resident ratio & generally cater to younger YPs with vulnerabilities. Whilst I was there average age was 14, though there were a few 13 year olds & one 12 year old, there were sometimes 15 year old boys but they had often been identified as vulnerable and always had the threat of being transferred to a Secure Training Centre or Young Offenders institution hanging over them if they caused trouble. Girls tended to be older 15/16 even 17 year olds. Staff wore their own clothes and were described as Social workers, they had a belt with keys, walk-in talkie and alarm around their waists. The Secure Children’s home I was sent to had two beds reserved for Children on Welfare Orders. The rest were for Children sentenced through the criminal justice system and were often there for serious or repeat offences. Ironically the repeat offenders were often sentenced to less then 3 months & chance of release at halfway point. Even one of the lads with the most serious offence was out in 8 months.
I was sent by the family court in 2003 at 17 years old, It was not my first stay, I had had a previous 3 stays all less then 3 months in the previous 18 months. The previous 3 hadn’t been too bad, my behaviour had been passable, I’d attended education, the gym. The structure had helped me and I kept my head down. This time was different though, I was unwell, traumatised by exposure to severe sexual assaults, I’d experienced gang rapes, grooming, being mugged on two occasions one where sexual assault was the primary objective and stealing my phone was to prevent me calling for help. I had been beaten by a man with a crowbar and was in the process to go to court to give evidence to hopefully secure conviction for GBH with offensive weapon, my assailant was looking at 5 years (charges got dropped because I was in secure and could not attend court so was seen as unreliable witness) I was angry and suicidal. I was off medications.
I remember what I got secluded for, it was for swearing in a sentence and being told to go to my room. I refused, I couldn’t face being alone with all my thoughts, all the memories with no distractions. With my chest screaming and nothing to pacify it, our rooms were bare at best of times. I was pre-bronze so a part from my mattress and duvet, pillows and a few books I had nothing. And I wasn’t convinced they wouldn’t remove them. The Order was repeated, I refused then one of the male staff grasped my elbows in a basket hold I think it’s called from behind and restrained me to my room. The restraint is not meant to cause pain, but believe me it does, it fucking kills! I was then held facedown bent over the bed whilst my duvet, pillows and books, were removed. I was then released and they ran out. Restraint meant the start of 24hr isolation, they had left my mattress but I just used it to obscure the viewing panel so they came mob handed and removed it from the room. I spent a while banging and kicking the doors and windows but soon got bored. Traumatic memories started to overwhelm me, I can’t describe them but I just needed them to stop, I’d hit my head, punch the sides of my temples to try knock myself unconscious getting angrier and angrier at myself as my attempts failed, I’d goad myself start smashing my jaw and face, fucking coward fucking coward just like when they fucked you, didn’t fucking stop them did you! Fucking coward! Over and over again! Staff would peer in through the viewing panel , warning me I would be in longer the more I continued, a few attempts were made to engage me but they were aggressively framed: “What’s up with you? Why are you behaving like this? No need for it!”I couldn’t ever see their facial expressions, they had taken my glasses, and their voices always sounded hostile to me. Soon they gave up and I couldn’t keep punching myself….it hurt too much. I moved on to searching the room for anything that could be used to cut with…I tried the plug sockets for any loose screws, or odd bits of plastic on the floor…literally anything. Every time I injured myself, every bang, punch, cut, ligature restarted the 24hr isolation in room.
I could see no way out, my self harm became suicide attempts with ligatures, it was bleak…my matteress and bedding were taken out early morning and not returned until 9pm. I used my clothes, eventually they would leave me with minimal clothing, ugly thick shorts, muscle tops with no bra which left me self conscious as my side boobs were visible….no socks, that progressed to no clothes for hours at a time….I would huddle in a blind spot under the built in plastic desk, male staff were still being allowed to do my checks, they would bang on the viewing panel on the door, they would open the blinds in the window from the control button in the locked cupboard next to my room and a member of staff would peer in from outside, often male, sometimes the other YPs would be outside playing, I couldn’t see how much they could see of me as I huddled partially or completely unclothed. The staff would speak to each other through their radios and if I could hear them say things like: “Yeah she’s tied a ligature, yeah leave it she ll take it off when she wants to.” In a almost bored tone. And sometimes I would but not always and not before my nose bled, sometimes even my eyes, my face became mottled and purple and my nose became snuffed & bunged up and breath painful and rugged. Sometimes they would rush in & drag me out from under the desk, pin me facedown, yanking the ligature roughly and cutting off with ligature cutters, running out straight after leaving me gasping on the floor. The lack of compassion left me feeling worse. Sometimes they would leave me with a ligature until I passed out, they would actually stand at the viewing panel banging to try get a response gloatingly saying “I can hear your still breathing, we re not going to come in and cut it off, we will just wait till you pass out, it’s easier that way” a few times when I passed out the deputy manager would be there when I regained consciousness, they would sit me up on the bed base one either side of me, someone would get me a drink, and the deputy manager would speak softly to me while I cried, the scare always made me more pliable, She would promise me if I kept safe for a few hours she would let me have a book. They never took any obs or called a dr but they would talk to me a bit longer. And the near death experience always shook me up and rid me of my suicidal and self injurious urges for the rest of the day. I just felt incredibly numb and tired.
As weeks passed into months I became increasingly desperate, I ripped up the carpet, I managed to get the metal plug socket off the wall, I harmed myself with my barehands, I attempted to run out the door whenever they opened it. They would keep cold air blowing from the vents, I was always freezing, the only furniture to sit on was the solid built plastic bed base, it made my bum numb, and was cold and uncomfortable. They started to play classical music on a radio outside my room despite me telling them it triggered memories of past abuse, they laughed as I literally ran at the walls and screaming while it played. For days at a time my only interactions were restraints to remove ligatures, 3 staff coming in ordering me to face the back wall while they bought me finger food on paper plates, or came in to drag me off my mattress & bedding at 8am which they didn’t return until 9pm, or to put a squirt of my toiletries on the sink base or give clothes. I became increasingly feral. Every few days a member of staff called Maggie would come play cards with me for 20 minutes or so, I treasured those minutes, she would leave the pack of cards and had taught me how to play clockwork orange, the moment I self harmed they would be taken out again.
I wasn’t allowed out for exercise or fresh air and there was a en-suite attached to my room that could be locked back or shut. The water could be turned off from the locked cupboard outside my room and the water was tepid. I had no phone access but I had no one to phone anyway.
About 5 months in they called the duty DR for me, he came and gave me a IM of Respiridol and said I needed to be sectioned but there were no adolescent beds, The deputy manager said she had called him because I was having what appeared to be an psychotic break, it’s fuzzy something about Bob the builder but I don’t know what had got them so worried as I had been pretty fucked up for the previous 5 months. He put me on 3mg of Respirodol but I was taken off it after 6 weeks after a ECG among other dangerously adverse reactions.
Eventually 4 months after being assessed and Section 3 recommended I was transferred to a Medium secure adolescent hospital….weirdly I didn’t want to leave, there were staff who had tried to make things better for me, sneaking in a book, or snacks, Maggie had played cards, one of the male staff was quite nice and would speak to me during checks. One of the female night staff would sometimes comfort me if I had flashbacks at night.
But a lot of it was torment, I’ve wondered how they got away with it, but then I discovered restraints and seclusion’s were only reported to the Ministry of Justice and only for the YPs serving Criminal Sentences. Despite paperwork being completed it was not regulated by anyone! Those on Welfare orders did not have anyone checking that seclusion was not being overused, that restraints were not inappropriate, that medical advise was sought after suicide attempts. That we were not being subjected to punitive regimes due to our disability’s like Autism/ ADHD, or due to mental health related symptoms! Fucking ridiculous!
I’m not sure how much has changed since 2003, all I know is the memories I have from that experience still haunt me. My heart pangs when I remember being left bloodied sobbing partially clothed on the floor and the long hours left with my pain and confusion. Why me why me why me! Arghhhhhhh! I internally recoil when I think how feral I became.
Unfortunately the hospital was not any better TBC thank you for reading please leave a like or comment if you can.
Written 4/04/21